| Maybe you are the one who is attracted to a number | | | | government employee's salary. Don't tell her that |
| of women. How do you choose from among the | | | | Fresno is a major cultural center of California. Don't |
| flowers? | | | | promise her an expensive wedding or a honeymoon if |
| Many men are naturally attracted to the most stunning | | | | you aren't going to keep your promise. |
| looking women. You may find yourself behaving in this | | | | When she pulls into your driveway, it will be apparent |
| manner consciously or unconsciously. Just remember | | | | to her that your home is not a Malibu beach house |
| that you are looking for a wife to share your life with | | | | (unless, of course, it is). If you are an average guy with |
| you when you get home. | | | | an average income, she will find out within one week |
| You are looking for a woman with whom you can | | | | of arriving in your country. |
| make a marriage work. A drop dead gorgeous | | | | Most of the Russian women, who are looking to meet |
| twenty-year-old super model may make your friends | | | | western men, are looking for an average guy. |
| jealous, but you are talking about high maintenance. | | | | You wonder, how can this beautiful, intelligent woman |
| Forgive the automobile analogy, but unless you can | | | | be interested in me? She is thinking the same thing. |
| afford to keep a Ferrari in your garage, you may want | | | | How could this successful American businessman be |
| to stick with a more serviceable model. You are going | | | | interested in me? |
| to look ridiculous driving around your small town in Iowa | | | | She is afraid that you will leave her for a younger, |
| in a Ferrari. | | | | prettier woman when you get bored with her. |
| The classic symptoms of male menopause are that | | | | If you are too handsome, or too rich, or too successful, |
| you take your usual logical reasonable self and cast all | | | | she may think that you will leave her when you grow |
| caution to the wind. You realize that half your life is | | | | bored with her. Many of the reasons Russian women |
| over and you really want to live the second half to the | | | | marry older western men is that they think that they |
| fullest. | | | | are wiser, more financially secure, and will remain |
| You buy that sports car; you get the hair transplant or | | | | faithful to them. |
| dye the gray; you decide to do all the things you put | | | | There is absolutely nothing wrong with being average. |
| off up to this point in your life as a good citizen. | | | | Level with her. |
| That's great! But instead of reckless abandon, why not | | | | She will appreciate your honesty. She will probably be |
| get a reality check from your friends and support | | | | thinking of ways for her to help you so that can both |
| group. They will give you an honest appraisal of your | | | | have a better family life. |
| assets and liabilities. | | | | A woman thirty years younger may look great on |
| If you are on a tour, ask the other men you are | | | | your arm, but is she going to be content with your |
| traveling with to give you their honest appraisal. | | | | lifestyle? A young immature girl of twenty is immature |
| If you are on your own and you are using the services | | | | no matter where she is from. |
| of a marriage agency, ask the personnel at the | | | | If these considerations are not relevant to your |
| agency to give you their honest appraisal. | | | | situation, then maybe you have not spent enough time |
| Sometimes others can see what you cannot. | | | | with the women you have met to be able to |
| Try to keep from buying the Ferrari on your postmans | | | | recognize which is the one. |
| income. You know what high maintenance is. Ask | | | | Spend more time with each special woman, until one |
| yourself what you can afford and what you cannot. | | | | begins to stand out. If one doesnt stand out after a |
| Take a serious look at who you are, what you have | | | | period of time, maybe you need to widen your |
| to offer, and what kind of resources you have | | | | selection again and date more women. |
| available to you. One complaint I have heard | | | | The last thing you want to do is settle for a woman |
| repeatedly from women of the CIS countries is that | | | | that you arent enamored with. Go back to the well |
| western men sometimes exaggerate what they have | | | | and keep drawing water. Keep looking until you find |
| to offer and make promises they don't keep. | | | | her. Dont worry, eventually you will. |
| Don't tell her that you're a high roller on your | | | | |